By: Rafeeat Bishi
In a blog post, I mentioned how I'm tired of talking about racism and that I'd like to focus on some positives that are going on with minority communities. I'll continue to try and spread awareness for issues that I believe are necessary knowledge, but other than that...
BOOOO |
There's been stuff going around on Twitter about Bhad Babie blackfishing and TikTok kids being racist, and to be honest (this may sound bad) I don't care.
I see more people tweeting about the shock value of these things than actually bringing conversations to the forefront. Those of us who constantly click on their pages to go and comment are the ones who make them famous.
Yayyy!!! |
A video I watched recently commented about how Kim Kardashian said it doesn't hurt her numbers when people talk about her. And I agree.
All publicity is good publicity because many companies only care about how many clicks you get, not what people are saying once they click.
I think we should, for the sake of our wellbeing, avoid unnecessary interactions. If we see some bad behavior, Twitter FBI (or you) can do it's thing, contact the necessary people and move on. Continually reposting and quoting with the words "thoughts?" or "omg this is so bad" will only encourage others to do what can get them on the timeline.
Bhad Babie behaved terribly and is now a millionaire with a music career. So there's that.
Also. Black people and minorities are not knights in shining armor who can do whatever to stop bad people. Most of us know that people are racist and that society treats us terribly, we don't need to see it in our messages or DMs. We don't need to be reminded 24/7.
We should try and withhold from sending friends "look at what's going on" when we can assume they'll already know. Looking at it doesn't lift our spirits, especially if we're in a position where we have no power.
We can't solve every problem. If a situation is out of our hands, we move on. I'm not saying to ignore bad behavior, use whatever power you have to stop injustice. Spread awareness for big issues! But when it comes to petty people doing nonsense, whose ideas aren't changing anytime soon, don't put your energy towards them. Why should I spend my time getting mad at racists I can't stop or hold accountable when I could be eating a Reese's or watching Glee?
Let's talk about some positives from time to time!
https://thebottomline.as.ucsb.edu/2020/02/how-culture-vultures-take-advantage-of-black-outrage
https://thegrio.com/2018/02/01/kim-kardashian-tomi-lahren-black-outrage/